In love, it is expected that we give
ourselves totally. Love means a passion that takes over
our total being. In love, there is no holding back of
anything. 'If I love you, what I have is yours and I
will hold nothing back from you. I expect the same from
you and if you love me with that abundance and
confidence, you will do the same.' With frequent
break-ups, people are becoming little worried about what
if they give all and lose all?
If one holds back, that no longer
remains love. It becomes an agreement or a contract. You
love him/her to so-and-so extent and with some
conditions. But then, that is no more love. It is a
contract. This all sounds very confusing. Should I not
experience the love that is heavenly and love that gives
me a new life? Or should I live mechanically defending
myself against all the odds? Every adventure gives us
great exhilaration and every adventure carries risk. Ask
mountaineers. What if they stop climbing mountains for
the fear of losing their lives? But the attraction of
mountaineering in some people is so much, that they feel
dead if you stop them.
It is true of love. Given a choice, love fully and with
a passion, that you never knew existed in you. Don't
worry about a break-up now. The present is to love and
live. Let future come with all negative possibilities.
At least experience love so that you can say that you
lived and loved.
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