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What do you do when you've
attracted a lovely person into your life and now you're
terrified you're going to blow it? Or, terrified it's
going to end?
Arm yourself with the following strategies, and you're
sure to blow it in a relationship right from the start.
1) Assume the person is your soul mate immediately upon
meeting or shortly thereafter. Look for signs that faith
has brought you together and be amazed by the
correlations in your lives.
2) Forget about your life, your friends, your self-care.
When you have a soul mate, why would you need a life
outside of the relationship? .
3) Reveal everything, and
test your partner with your worst behavior. Let it all
hang out. After all, if this is truly your soul mate, he
or she will love you no matter what.
4) Have sex right away. If you are meant to be together
for a lifetime, you might as well get started on the fun
part right away.
5) Ignore anything about your partner that does not mesh
with your values, lifestyle, or belief system. True love
can conquer such insignificant differences.
6) Do lots
of drama together. Job, family, and life crises are
great ways to establish a relationship and test whether
or not you are meant to be together.
7) Spend as much time together as
possible. When it's true love, you can't bear to let
your partner out of your sight.
8) Ignore behavior that crosses your boundaries or hurts
your feelings. It's true love, so it's ok.
9) Lavish a huge amount of attention on your partner or
expect a huge amount of attention to be lavished on you.
How else would you act if you finally found your soul
mate?
10) Push the relationship forward and demand that it go
deeper, in spite of where your partner is emotionally.
You have the right to have the relationship be exactly
how you want it to be and your soul mate owes you that.
If you want some insurance that your new relationship
has every chance of making it, be…
* Honest
* Communicative
* Clear about your needs and boundaries
* A good listener
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On
the other hand, your relationship may
end no matter what you do. But being in
fear it will end actually makes the end
more likely. To eradicate this fear, let
go of the attachment that the person you
are with be THE right person. Simply be
with him or her one day at a time.
Your Relationship Coach,
Rinatta Paries |
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