All of you are different. You have
different emotional make-up. You grew up differently in
your childhood and you have different value systems.
Some of you have a predominant emotion that may be
constructive or destructive. You have your own way to
look at relationships. Your motivations are different
and you derive satisfaction with different goals.
Lovers are equally different. Take any lover, and you
will find a unique specimen. Though lovers can be
broadly classified, lets see what can be different
amongst them. To begin with how do people look at love?
Some of the lovers have a great fear of rejection and
therefore they avoid getting involved in an intimate
relationship beyond a limit. Some lovers feel good, if
someone loves them. That satisfies their urge to know
that they are worthy and good. So love reassures them
about their worth.
One may find lovers who want to give all
they can to their partner without expecting anything in
return. They want to please their partner. But such
lovers may get frustrated after giving for a long time
and begin complaining about not receiving anything in
return. Some lovers are weak inside and seek a partner
to protect them. They may or may not show this need, but
will complain if the need of protection is not
satisfied. Some lovers are successful in their life.
They are confident and self-dependent. They know how to
express healthy love, but may ignore the partner after
sometime, if the partner does not match their
intellectual skills. Similarly, you may find a lover who
will not express love in words but does his/her best to
care for the lover. There are many more kinds of lovers.
What does this all mean? This means that human beings
are complicated individuals and love, being an extension
of the personality, is equally difficult to understand.
What kind of lover are you and what kind of lover is
your partner? Think about that. If you try, you can find
out something that can be changed to make your love life
much better and satisfying.
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